An Open Letter to Our Baby Boy
Hey everyone, I recently posted this caption on my Instagram and thought I would re-share it here along with an open letter to our baby boy.
One day when you’re old and grown, we’ll tell you about the last 30 days before you were born and how you served as a symbol of hope and love during a time of fear and chaos. We’ll tell you that above all the confusion and uncertainty there was one thing we were certain of and it was to make the world a better and safer place for you. Because you were the light shining at the end of that dark tunnel guiding us through and ready to pull us out to brighter days as a family of three. We’ll tell you that every time we seemed to lose hope, you were there reminding us to be strong because you needed us. But really it was us who needed you. And even though we dreamt it all would be different, you were perfect and that was enough.
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Outfit: Sequin Maxi Maternity Tulle Dress (wearing sz 6)— also comes in silver & taupe blush (I wore the taupe to my baby shower) | Amiya Gold Cuff Bracelet in Pearl & Avi Hoop Earrings In Rose Gold c/o Kendra Scott | David Yurman Bracelets | Sam Edelman Yaro Heels
Blake’s Outfit: Slim Traveler Pant | Classic Fit Short Sleeve Chino Shirt | Similar Suede Wingtip Shoes here & here
Dear Beck, by the time that you’re old enough to read this, you’ll already know how much we love you, but we want you know how much we loved you before we even knew you. The best way to describe that to you is tell you the story of the last month leading up to your arrival. Some people will you tell you that it was a scary and chaotic time to bring a baby into the world. Others might say it was all a blur of a nightmare, but in the midst of all that, there was goodness and that goodness was you.
Was I scared at times? Sure, but I knew had to be strong for you and put my trust in God. If I had the choice, would I have chosen to bring to you into the world when it felt calmer, absolutely! But life doesn’t always go the way you want it to. You can’t control everything not matter how hard you try, but you know what you can control? Your perspective! You can control how you see the world and how you respond to it.
You want to know what I saw during the last days before your arrival? I saw the world come together and stop everything that they were doing just to keep you and loved ones safe. I saw them sacrifice their jobs, their travel plans and their social lives for the greater good. I saw doctors and nurses heroically put their lives on the line to save others. I watched families grow closer to one another and I smiled as they came up with creative ways to celebrate birthdays, weddings and anniversaries. People still celebrated and made moments feel special even when they couldn’t physically be together. Because love wasn’t canceled nor was laughter, happiness, relationships, hope or family. You see Beck, life may not always go as planned, but that doesn’t mean you should give up. You just have to look for a window or the silver lining in the situation to pull you through. Sometimes you have to look really hard, but I promise you it’s there.
As for us, it was a time when your dad and I just got to enjoy each other’s company. He cooked me breakfast every morning to help me with my special diet that I had to follow to keep you healthy and he worked tirelessly on the house and your room to make it perfect for you. We walked every evening after dinner and talked about how excited we were for you to arrive and what you might be like and look like. We joked about me teaching you sports and what an awful idea that would be because I’m sure you know by now that I know nothing about sports. We watched Disney movies that we loved as kids and couldn’t wait to show you one day. We felt your kicks all day and night because you never stopped moving and laughed because that meant you might have my non-stop energy. Best of all, we were able to find the joy and beauty in each and every day all of because of you. You opened our eyes to everything else the world had to offer during a time when it was hard to see those things. And for that we love you to the moon and back.
We pray that one day you’ll experience the same love with your own spouse and that God will bless you with a baby as wonderful as you.
Love, your mom and dad
To everyone else, especially all of your new and expecting mothers: Be kind, hopeful and positive and send those vibes back into the world and I have a feeling that we’ll come out of this even stronger and more connected than before! We’ve all experienced natural disasters before and we’re all in this one together. Stay strong friends!
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Outfit: Sequin Maxi Maternity Tulle Dress (wearing sz 6)— also comes in silver & taupe blush (I wore the taupe to my baby shower) | Amiya Gold Cuff Bracelet in Pearl & Avi Hoop Earrings In Rose Gold c/o Kendra Scott | David Yurman Bracelets | Sam Edelman Yaro Heels
Blake’s Outfit: Slim Traveler Pant | Classic Fit Short Sleeve Chino Shirt | Similar Suede Wingtip Shoes here & here
Photos by: Aperture Photos Co
28 Fun Facts About Me!
Happy Friday everyone and Happy Birthday to me! In honor of turning 28 today, I thought it would be fun to share 28 fun facts about myself. I’ll also be sharing more details about these facts on my Instagram stories this weekend. But first, I have to thank Sucre in New Orleans for making me the most beautiful macaron cake I’ve ever seen. And would you believe if I said that it tasted even better than it looked? Because it did!
Find my silk nightgown here—> Flora Nikrooz Alessia Chemise in Buff
Home Decor Details: White Duvet c/o Serena & Lily | Upholstered Headboard | Gold Birthday Balloons | Gold Arch Wall Mirror
28 Fun Facts About Me:
- I’m Filipino and Italian. My mom is full Italian and my dad is full Filipino.
2) My husband, Blake and I have been together since high school so we’re currently going on 13 years! Crazy, right?
3) I interned in Disney World when I was junior in college. I wanted to be a princess (Jasmine or Pocahontas), but I was “too short” so I ended up taking out at the trash at Peco’s Bill in Magic Kingdom for four months of my life instead. Let’s just say I don’t consider Disney World to be the most magical place on earth anymore. LOL
4) I’m always hungry and never turn down Chick-fil-a.
5) My personal blog interview was published in the LiketoKnow.it coffee table book this past month. See here—>Stories From The Influencer Next Door
6) I casually host dance parties and perform impromptu musicals for my husband all the time even when doesn’t ask me to, which by the way….he never asks me to! LOL
7) When I was little I wanted to be an actor and singer. I actually still dream about it.
8) I auditioned for the tv show Glee when I was in college. Obviously, they didn’t cast me, but we all know they’re clearly missing out. 😉
9) I have zero concept of time all thanks to my mother who made me late for everything growing up, but I’m working on it. I always set my clocks 10 minutes ahead to try and help.
Find my silk nightgown here—> Flora Nikrooz Alessia Chemise in Buff
Home Decor Details: White Duvet c/o Serena & Lily | Upholstered Headboard |
10) I hate scary movies and can’t even watch the previews. When Blake and I go to the movies, I wait outside of the theatre until the previews over and then he calls me in. That’s how big of a baby I am!
11) When I started my blog, I barely knew how to use a computer! Now I run my own website.
12) I went to LSU for 5 years, but never graduated because my blog started bringing more opportunities than school did. However, I can always go back one day! Maybe.
13) I never let Blake and I go to bed mad at each other.
14) I love hot coffee in the morning, which I put in the microwave at least five times before finishing it.
15) Some of my favorite shows include: Friends, The Office, Modern Family and This Is Us
16) While I love brunch, it also stresses me out because I hate skipping lunch. LOL I love all meals though and the thought of skipping one gives me anxiety.
17) I’m a notorious overpacker, yet I never even get around to wearing even half of the things I packed.
18) I am the most positive person you will ever meet. My glass is always half full!
I thought I knew 28 fun facts about myself, but now I’m running out of things to say so I’m going to let Blake take over. This should be interesting…
8 more things you don’t know about me (written by Blake):
19) Jenn is a terrible driver. Do not get in the car with her or ask her for directions unless you’re looking for the nearest Chick-fil-a.
20) She used to only watch the Disney channel until I recently converted her to Netflix this past year.
21) Jenn doesn’t know how to cook, but she always knows how to make me laugh. She has the best sense of humor and always knows how to laugh at herself.
22) We almost didn’t get to go on our first date because she was in trouble for leaving the garage door open.
23) Her meal was only $4 on our first date. Clearly that was a trick. Let’s just say it’s never been under $4 since!
24) She has made me multiple scrapbooks over the years “that I read everyday because I love them!” 😉
25) She’ll always make you feel like the smartest person in the room…;)
26) Every morning when I bring her coffee in bed, she says “bring me my robes!” like she’s the queen of the house or something. LOL! She also requests a pair of socks her feet are always cold.
27) She dances around the house way more than y’all witness on Instagram stories.
28) She is literally the most annoying person I know, but I can’t imagine anyone else more annoying that I would rather spend the rest of my life with! Happy Birthday Jenn! I love you!