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How To Throw The Perfect Beach Bachelorette Party

Hey everyone, I hope you all had a nice weekend. Today I’m talking about how to throw the perfect beach bachelorette party by sharing all the details from the recent beach trip/bachelorette party that I helped throw for one of my fellow blogger friends, Caitlyn from Milligan Movement. I got together with nine other influencers who are also friends with Caitlyn and we rented a beautiful 5-bedroom house in WaterSound beach to sleep 12 of us. This is the exact house we rented—> https://www.vrbo.com/7823606ha?adultsCount=10

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Day 1: Arrival & Dinner at the house provided by Private Chef Kali

Prior to the trip, I sent out an itinerary, sign up sheet and packing list to all of the girls so they knew exactly what outfits to bring and how much to budget for. Speaking of budget, I made sure to run the plans by everyone first before booking anything so that there were no surprises when it came to paying for meals and activities. Taylor from Gracefully Taylored was so helpful in booking the house and private chef for the first night. I can’t even begin to tell you how nice it was to have a four-course meal complete with champagne and rosé prepared for us in our house the first night we arrived after a long day of traveling. We used Chef Kali and they did a phenomal job.

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During dinner I passed out all of the goodie bags to each of the girls and we discussed the rest of our weekend plans. When it comes to goodie bags, I do not recommend investing an excessive amount of items like I did for this trip. I was fortunate to have partnered with these brands to give you some unique ideas for items to put in your goodie bags, but I know my friends would be so ecstatic to receive just even one of these goodies. I suggest choosing just a couple of these items to give to all of your best gals.

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 If you are working within a tight budget, it’s nice to include items like pain reliever, snacks, mints, makeup wipes, hand sanitizer, bobby pins, SPF, tums, hair ties etc…

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Goodie Bags: Palm Leaf Eye Mask, Champagne Nightshirt & Hand-Painted Palm Leaf Beach Bag c/o Mark & Graham | Initial Charm Necklace w/ North Star Charm & Ivory Mother-of-Pearl c/o Kendra Scott | Customized Boater Hat, Disco Ball Cup & Stemless Canteen c/o White Elephant Designs | St. Barts Studded Cork Clutch c/o Lilly Pullitzer | White Heart Sunglasses | COOLA Organic Unscented Sport Sunscreen Spray, COOLA Organic Makeup Setting Sunscreen Spray & COOLA Full Spectrum 360 Mineral Sun Silk Creme Sunscreen

A week prior to the trip, I had Caitlyn’s matron of honor email the groom with 24 questions to answer about their relationship and had him send the questionarre back with all of his answers. Some of the questions consisted of: My biggest pet peeve of Caitlyn is? Her biggest pet peeve is when I?
Our best date ever was?
The day I realized I wanted to marry her was?

We saved the questions and answers on someone’s phone and read them aloud after dinner and if she answered the question correctly meaning the same answer as the groom, we all took a drink. If she answered incorrectly, she took a drink. I think this game may have been my favorite part of the trip too and it’s such a fun way to learn more about your friend’s relationship. If you’re interested in the rest of the questions for an upcoming trip, shoot me and email at jenn.hauteofftherack@gmail.com.

Day 2: Pajama Party & Boat Day

We kicked off our first full day with a with a pajama party in our new Champagne Nightshirts  from Mark & Graham and danced around the house with mimosas after breakfast. If you follow me on Instagram, this was the pajama party where we reenacted the intro of Big Little Lies! Once everyone was ready for the boat, we packed up all the necessities, snacks and drinks and took and uber to the marina. As I mentioned earlier, I sent out a sign up sheet prior to the trip so that each girl could contribute some type of snack, drink or necessity to make boat day a smooth and pleasant experience.

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Palm Leaf Eye Masks & Champagne Nightshirt

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We rented a boat with a kitchen and bathroom so that we could keep our drinks and food cold and still have plenty of room for dancing and lounging. The boat owner also provided us with a captain who took us out on the water for four hours, which was the perfect amount of time because we were exhausted by the end. As for our outfits, we ordered nine black swimsuits and everyone got to choose a “nautical” bachelorette themed phrase to have stamped on their swimsuit.

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Black One Pieces & Captain Hats

The whole idea stemmed from the name of the boat we rented! We were cracking up because the name of the boat is called “Nauti⚓️ Pleasures” so we started making “nauti” jokes and all of sudden I was like “Omg I saw something on Pinterest that would be perfect for this!” We decided this the weekend before we left and all worked together with a little help from Amazon prime to make it happen for Cait’s bach party!

Day 3: Pool Party & Fancy All White Dinner at Caliza

By day three, we were all pretty exhausted from the boat so we took it easy and hung out by the pool and beach all day snacking on cake pops and drinking plenty of rosé and Michelob Ultra. That night we got a all dressed up in white and went out to a fancy dinner at Caliza to celebrate the bride-to-be!

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Custom Boater Hats c/o White Elephant Designs

Don’t forget to pack an electric air pump so you can more easily blow up all of your pool floats. There is also an option to help you deflate your floats too so you don’t have to spend hours waiting for it deflate before packing it to go back home.

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You may have seen my “How to Plan the Perfect Bachelorette Beach Party” blog post from four years ago, but if you haven’t seen it, I listed all of my tips below.

How To Throw The Perfect Beach Bachelorette Party:

1)  Start planning two-three months in advance and ask the bride what kind of party she wants, where she wants it, who she wants to invite and her schedule availability. Once you pinpoint her ideal party/trip and have her open dates on the calendar, reach out to the rest of the bridal party and coordinate dates and a budget that work for everyone before booking a place.

2) Once you find a couple of available places that work with everyone’s schedules and budgets, present them to the bride and let her choose which one she likes best.  Before booking the place, get a final headcount and make sure everyone is clear on how much money they will need to put down. You can also give them an estimate of groceries, dinner reservations and any additional events that may take place.

To avoid anyone having to spend more money than they had originally planned, I made a rule that once you committed to the trip and paid, you would NOT be refunded your money if you decided to cancel last minute. I did this to be fair to everyone especially those who could not afford to go over budget.

When it comes to collecting everyone’s money for the trip, I suggest encouraging the rest of the bridesmaids to download apps like Venmo or Paypal to help this process run smoothly. You’ll also like like being able to use these apps during the trip too.

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3) A month before the trip research restaurants and fun things to do in that area and take any necessary actions for booking and reserving. When doing this make sure to ask about group deals and special bachelorette freebies.

4) 1-2 weeks prior to the trip, send out an email including the following information: address, start/end time, dress codes, any additional fee reminders, transportation info and a tentative itinerary for the guests to use as a guide for packing. If you plan to throw a lingerie party during the trip, make sure to inform the guests of the bride’s sizes. This is also time when you should make your grocery and decorations list, compile a list of fun games and call to confirm all of your reservations. A week before the trip, take food and alcohol requests from the rest of the group if you plan knock out the grocery trip yourself. I  found that it saved a lot of time going alone.  Lastly, make sure you coordinate a ride for the bride and give her the breakdown without giving away any surprises so she knows how to pack.

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5) The night before the trip, remind everyone of the check in time, address and any other obligations they agreed to.  On the actual first day of the trip, plan to arrive early with one or two more people to help set up and decorate before the bride arrives. For the trip I recently just hosted, I arrived a couple of hours early with one other girl to check everyone in, make a grocery store trip and decorate the condo. I wanted the fridge and cabinets to be fully stocked for when everyone arrived so we could immediately start partying.

Decorations: I didn’t go crazy with decorations for this trip beach trip because we plan on throwing a bigger party back at home with more of her friends, but I highly suggest balloon garland and disco balls.

You can use the style board below as a guide to help you prepare for your next beach bachelorette party.

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1. Balloons Rose Gold 16″ | 2. COOLA Makeup Setting Sunscreen | 3. 3 Pack Party Large Balloons | 4. Bride Straw | 5. Hand-Painted Straw Beach Bag | 6. One Piece Swimsuit | 7. Yacht Captain Hat | 8. Command Clear Hooks | 9. Drink Coolers | 10. Electric Air Pump | 11. Diamond Ring Pool Float | 12. Pineapple Pool Float | 13. Flamingo Pool Float | 14. Metallic Fringe Curtains

See more from my own bachelorette party here—>Wedding Wednesday: 5 Essentials You Need For The Perfect Bachelorette Party

Wedding Wednesday: 5 Essentials You Need For The Perfect Bachelorette Party

Happy Wedding Wednesday! If you follow along with me on Instagram then you know that I just returned from my second bachelorette party in Palm Springs with my blogger besties: A Pinch of Lovely, Carrie Bradshaw Lied and My Style Diaries. We had so much fun trying out new restaurants and pretending that it wasn’t cold out by the pool, which by the way was freezing! LOL However, the most fun we had was at the house playing random games and singing into our karaoke mics that you know I provided. If you know me at all, you know that I try and incorporate my karaoke mic into anything and everything that we do so I bought everyone their own personal mic! I’m sure their husbands were thrilled when they returned home with an obnoxious mic that blares music along with their voices. We all know how much Blake loves when I pull my karaoke mic out. In case you missed it on my Instagram stories, I actually brought my personal mic to our “first look” before our New Orleans wedding ceremony.

In case you’re confused as to what I meant when I said second bachelorette party… all of the my friends threw me a party in Louisiana before the New Orleans wedding and since Nikki, Kathleen and Krystal had to miss it, they threw me another one in Palm Springs at Nikki’s house before the Cabo ceremony.

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5 Essentials You Need For The Perfect Bachelorette Party

  1. First things first, you need food and booze! The minute we arrived in Palm Springs, we headed straight for the grocery store to stock up on beer, wine, chips, dips, cheese, fruit and frozen pizzas!

2) Bride-to-Be Propaganda! Come on people! What is a bach party without all of the cheesy props like a party veil, flashing light rings and a sash or tiara. I added a few of my own touches like the personal karaoke mics and the monogrammed polaroid cameras from Mark & Graham. I wanted to give my gals some gifts for dedicating their time to me so I also gave them monogrammed beach totes, towels and hats with their names on them to bring to Cabo. I got the hats from White Elephant Designs where you can customize them to say anything!

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3) A bomb-ass playlist! One with all the throwbacks you could ask for! What are some of your favorite throwback songs? I love No Diggity, Back That Azz Up, Ride With Me and Ignition!

4) Plenty of white options! Bring them all!! I stocked up on as many white rompers, jumpsuits, dresses and swimsuits that I could find and I packed them all! Don’t worry, I’ll be sharing a round up of all my

5) Party Decor! The only thing I requested was a disco ball and the Kat came through! Check out all of the party decor details on Kathleen’s blog—> 7 Steps to Planning a Bachelorette Party 

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Outfit: White Jumpsuit c/o Parker New York | Party Veil 1 | Party Veil 2 | Nude Ankle Strap Heels | Crescent Necklace c/o Lola James

Custom Hats & Beach Tote by White Elephant Designs | White Off The Shoulder One Piece

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 Bachelorette Veil | Monogram Beach Tote c/o Mark & Graham| White Off The Shoulder One Piece

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Bonus!! See more bachelorette party ideas here—> How To Plan The Perfect Bachelorette Party!

Here are a couple photos from my bachelorette party with my friends in Louisiana!

My romper is three years old by Kendall & Kylie!

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How To Plan The Perfect Bachelorette Beach Trip!

The most anticipated post of the month is finally here: How To Throw The Perfect Bachelorette Beach Trip! In my recent maid of honor duty post, Spring Bridal Shower Invitations, I mentioned that I’ve wanted to be someone’s maid of honor almost my whole life. Little did I know how much work goes into being a top notch MOH, but thankfully the other 10 bridesmaids have been super helpful and cooperative.

However, even with all of the help, the bridal shower for 50 people seemed like a piece of cake compared to planning a weekend bachelorette party at the beach. I’ve only been on one bachelorette trip ever before so I didn’t have much experience to pull ideas from. One thing I did know how to do though was put together some bomb ass goodie bags for the bride-to-be and the bridal party.  I’m sure you’ll notice in these photos that I went a little overboard with the goodie bags, but that was only because I wanted to offer my blog readers plenty of bridal party gift and bachelorette party favor ideas! With that being said, I don’t suggest gifting all of these items to your bridal party, but I do recommend taking a couple of these ideas and incorporating them into your party favors and/or bridal party gifts.

As for how to actually plan a successful bachelorette beach trip, scroll all the way to the bottom of the post for advice based on my own personal experience.

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Bachelorette Party Favor & Bridal Party Gift Ideas:

Mini Zip Card Case c/o Gigi New York | I love using this card case while traveling so I don’t have to worry about losing everything in my wallet. Also, it’s the perfect size wallet for small cross body bags when all you need is your ID, credit/debit card and some cash. Plus you can get it personalized with your initials.

 Heart Sunglasses c/o ZeroUV | I mean these are just a must when it comes to fun group photos on the beach!

 Mini Rosé Bottles c/o Chandon | Rosé all day people!

 Flip Flops c/o Yosi Samra | Yosi Samra is hands down the best brand when it comes to comfy, cushiony flip flops and foldable flats. Speaking of their foldable flats, they are great for the day of the wedding when it’s time for everyone to kick off their heels. Yosi Samra offers bridal party deals too!

 Monogrammed Wide Brimmed Hats c/o Marley Lilly | If you can’t afford to do these wide brimmed, monogrammed hats for the entire bridal party, I highly recommend to at least get one for just bride. It’s a beach party must-have! Also, share the idea with the other girls and they may be willing to purchasing the hats on their own for the trip.

 Sun Screen Hello Sunshine Kit c/o Supergoop | Supergoop offers top quality skincare products and lightweight, non-greasy sunscreen. Also, their sunscreen protects skin from UVA, UVB and IRA rays.

 Metallic Pineapple Totes c/o The Elizabeth Chronicles | Not only are these metallic pineapple tote super cute, but you can also add a fun phrase or hashtag relating to your party or event. Had I planned on getting these totes farther in advance, I would have added #bridetribe just like our flash tattoos that I include in the bags.

 Buxom Lip Gloss c/o Buxom Cosmetics | Buxom lip gloss is pretty much the only lip gloss I wear because it goes on smoothly and doesn’t leave any sticky residue. Plus I can’t even count many shades it comes in!

 Flamingo & Cactus Tumblers, Monogrammed Beach Spikers & Monogrammed Champagne Flutes c/o White Elephant Designs | Whoever invented beach spikers is a straight up genius. They fit the tumblers perfectly, but they also hold canned or bottled drinks too. The monogrammed champagne flutes make great favors for your bridal party at the bridal luncheon or bridal shower.

 Personalized Tassel Key Chains c/o Mark & Graham | Brides, these tassel keychains are such cute bridesmaid gifts especially since you can personalize them with their initials.

 Colorful Low Rise Thongs c/o Hanky Panky | Bridesmaids, if you want to get the bride something blue for her big day, the light blue “I do” low rise thong is absolutely precious! Brides, Hanky Panky also makes special bridesmaids thongs to wear with their dresses for the wedding.

*Side Note: If you are working within a tight budget, it’s nice to just include items in the goodie bag like pain reliever, snacks, mints, makeup wipes, hand sanitizer, bobby pins, tums, hair ties etc…

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Goodie Bag Details: Mini Zip Card Case c/o Gigi New York | Heart Sunglasses c/o ZeroUV | Mini Rosé Bottles c/o Chandon | Flip Flops c/o Yosi Samra | Monogrammed Wide Brimmed Hats c/o Marley Lilly | Sun Block Hello Sunshine Kit c/o Supergoop | Metallic Pineapple Totes c/o The Elizabeth Chronicles | Buxom Lipgloss c/o Buxom Cosmetics | Flamingo & Cactus Tumblers, Monogrammed Beach Spikers & Monogrammed Champagne Flutes c/o White Elephant Designs | Personalized Tassel Key Chains c/o Mark & Graham | Colorful Low Rise Thongs c/o Hanky Panky

Photos by both myself & Lainey Reed Photography  (some photos were taken with an iPhone)

How To Plan The Perfect Bachelorette Beach Trip:

1)  Start planning three months in advance and ask the bride what kind of party she wants, where she wants it, who she wants to invite and her schedule availability. Once you pinpoint her ideal party/trip and have her open dates on the calendar, reach out to the rest of the bridal party and coordinate dates and a budget that work for everyone before booking a place.

2) Once you find a couple of available places that work with everyone’s schedules and budgets, present them to the bride and let her choose which one she likes best.  Before booking the place, get a final headcount and make sure everyone is clear on how much money they will need to put down. You can also give them an estimate of groceries, dinner reservations and any additional events that may take place.

To avoid anyone having to spend more money than they had originally planned, I made a rule that once you committed to the trip and paid, you would NOT be refunded your money if you decided to cancel last minute. I did this to be fair to everyone especially those who could not afford to go over budget.

When it comes to collecting everyone’s money for the trip, I suggest encouraging the rest of the bridesmaids to download apps like Venmo or Paypal to help this process run smoothly. You’ll also like like being able to use these apps during the trip too.

3) A month before the trip research restaurants and fun things to do in that area and take any necessary actions for booking and reserving. When doing this make sure to ask about group deals and special bachelorette freebies.

4) 1-2 weeks prior to the trip, send out an email including the following information: address, start/end time, dress codes, any additional fee reminders, transportation info and a tentative itinerary for the guests to use as a guide for packing. If you plan to throw a lingerie party during the trip, make sure to inform the guests of the bride’s sizes. This is also time when you should make your grocery and decorations list, compile a list of fun games and call to confirm all of your reservations. A week before the trip, take food and alcohol requests from the rest of the group if you plan knock out the grocery trip yourself. I  found that it saved a lot of time going alone.  Lastly, make sure you coordinate a ride for the bride and give her the breakdown without giving away any surprises so she knows how to pack.

5) The night before the trip, remind everyone of the check in time, address and any other obligations they agreed to.  On the actual first day of the trip, plan to arrive early with one or two more people to help set up and decorate before the bride arrives. For the trip I recently just hosted, I arrived a couple of hours early with one other girl to check everyone in, make a grocery store trip and decorate the condo. I wanted the fridge and cabinets to be fully stocked for when everyone arrived so we could immediately start partying.

Decorations:

I found all of my banners, balloons and supplies at target. I made sure to pack tape, scissors and command hooks instead of relying on the condo to have everything I needed. As for all the explicit decor, I got all of that taken care of at Spencer’s in the mall.

Games:

We played three really fun games during the trip in which the bride mentioned was her favorite part of the trip. On the first night we played a drinking question game. A week prior to the trip, I emailed the groom with 24 questions to answer about their relationship and had him send the questionarre back with all of his answers. Some of the questions consisted of: My biggest pet peeve of Jordan is? Her biggest pet peeve is when I?
Our best date ever was?
The day I realized I wanted to marry her was?  I printed out the questions and read them aloud and if she answered the question correctly meaning the same answer as the groom, we all took a drink. If she answered incorrectly, she took a drink. I think this game may have been my favorite part of the trip too. If you’re interested in the rest of the questions for an upcoming trip, shoot me and emil at jenn.hauteofftherack@gmail.com.

Game 2: On the second night of the trip, I sent out a Bachelorette Bucket List in our group text which is essentially a scavenger hunt for the bride to complete at the bar. It had all kinds of crazy things on there and I’m not kidding you when I say she literally dominated this list in under an hour. She’s a pretty aggressive bride though! Haha!

Game 3: When we returned home from the scanveger hunt at the bar, we played ‘Pin the junk on the hunk!’ I found this game at Spencer’s and it’s pretty self-explanatory. I suggest playing it after long night of drinking, it’s much more entertaining that way!

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